Characters

I'm normally a very good at acknowledging someone's character and accepting them for who they are in their space.  However, when their character negatively impacts my space it leaves a horrible taste in my mouth and the wall in immediately thrown up.  I don't like having others negativity encroach upon me especially when their impairments create a negative experiences; and I certainly don't like it when the person is old enough to be a parent.  I don't babysit my mother then what in the hell makes them think I"m going to babysit them. I don't have an issue looking out for anyone, but when their shit is so sloppy it makes for a bad experience, walls are thrown up, and boundaries which will be established.  And sometimes the relationship that was had will never be the same.